The Elevator Pitch
I’m a 29-year-old teacher in Thunder Bay, Ontario, Canada. Currently, I teach math and English at the Lakehead Adult Education Centre, where adults can earn their Ontario Secondary School Diploma. In my spare time, I mainline books like they’re an illicit drug. I knit. I spend way too much time online. Occasionally I say something interesting.
Where I’m From
I was born and raised in Thunder Bay, a settler on the lands of the Anishinaabeg of Fort William First Nation and the Robinson–Superior Treaty of 1850.
After I graduated from Lakehead University in 2012, I taught math and English in England for two years. Then I moved back here. If you look hard enough online, you can find a music video I shot of me dancing to Taylor Swift’s “Shake It Off” (you don’t have to look that hard).
I’ve maintained a continuous online presence since March 2004, when I taught myself HTML and put my first site online at Geocities. Since then, I’ve learned a host of other skills and languages, from PHP and MySQL to, most recently, Python and the Flask framework. This has always been a hobby to me; I’m not a professional programmer or web developer by any means. But I’m proud of what I can do.
Where I’m Going
Part of reaching nearly 30 is the joy of adding more layers.
Last year I bought a house. It was the end of a major chapter in my life, the culmination of a longstanding goal. At first I wondered, having achieved the last big milestone I’d set myself, what I’d do next.
Turns out the end of this chapter was the start of a whole new one. I grew closer than I ever expected to a friend I’ve known for years, and now she’s in my life every single day, dynamic and daring and inspirational. Every time we talk or text makes my day better. Moreover, I made a brand new friend, someone who makes me feel like I’ve spent my whole life just auditioning to be the me I am with her. Despite knowing her a year, hanging out with her just feels right. We have a standing Sunday night hangout to watch Doctor Who together.
These friendships, and the existing ones I continue to maintain and grow, matter so much. Friendship is very important to me. I identify as both asexual and aromantic, and although neither of these orientations precludes having a partner of any kind, that’s not something I want right now. I still want close companions, though. People who care for me. People who let me care for them. More than buying a house, last year was the year I think I found it.
So now I plan to spend as much of my life as possible enjoying it.